First Date with Anya. Fear. Fear of emotional Catfishing

 Anxious about tomorrow's date with Anya, she does seem weird. I hope she will quench my fears and is a lovely lady and actually respects boundaries not only firmly established but also those vaguelly hinted at.

I need friends and good experiences now, very much. I dont want the dacha thing repeated, i dont want regrets.
Plus she positions herself as a mistress. And im averted to that, when it comes to me. But also she says boundaries are important to her SO. Let the tree show what it is.

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